tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post8729434253754131200..comments2024-02-19T04:50:58.801-05:00Comments on Daddy...Daddy, come back!: rules for my pilotJoannahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-12442068943269226302013-08-19T09:27:51.832-04:002013-08-19T09:27:51.832-04:00Yes! I love it! (and I will probably be using thi...Yes! I love it! (and I will probably be using this all the time now :) )Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-1550489372973506062013-08-18T18:26:11.810-04:002013-08-18T18:26:11.810-04:00Your relationship is on cruise control? You're...Your relationship is on cruise control? You're a pilot wife.... You know where I'm going with this... Your relationship is on auto-pilot. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-56560344502202949832012-02-13T10:40:43.068-05:002012-02-13T10:40:43.068-05:00Nicole, that was the inspiration for this post :) ...Nicole, that was the inspiration for this post :) I was shocked too! You are right, worries like that would just add stress. <br /><br />Welcome to my blog!!!Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-90177257146917558542012-02-12T15:02:05.393-05:002012-02-12T15:02:05.393-05:00Hi, just found you. I am a fellow pilot wife. I ...Hi, just found you. I am a fellow pilot wife. I agree totally with this post. I am on a site that just had the same topic (pilots wives club) and I was shocked at all the rules that were put on their husbands. Crazy. I am happy that we trust each other enough to not add the extra stress in our lives.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04220895653072940035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-36837266459516665862012-01-29T13:11:24.805-05:002012-01-29T13:11:24.805-05:00Thanks Ren! This post has opened up conversations ...Thanks Ren! This post has opened up conversations with friends and even Steve. The best was when my aunt was talking about when women will say "well, I trust my husband. It is the women I don't trust." of course, this implies distrust with your man. I think that people who call trust= naive means that your don't have true trust...they just don't get it, so they have to talk out of it. <br /><br />Believe me, I am not naive about cheating. Not at all. As I mentioned, if Steve cheats there is a long road ahead. I also know that as long as you are satisfied, both husband and wife, you won't give into temptations. I bet that if you talk to cheaters you can figure out why they strayed, and it probably isn't too hard to figure out. <br /><br />I feel like I could talk about this topic forever...Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-79524071204087531672012-01-29T08:06:52.826-05:002012-01-29T08:06:52.826-05:00It's so refreshing to hear someone sum up the ...It's so refreshing to hear someone sum up the trust/rules aspect of being married to a pilot- in a POSITIVE manner. Every relationship is different and I'm sick of the "boards" saying that trust=naivety. The pilot and I went through a lot before we got married and I'm confident that our marriage is (and will be) strong as long as we're open about everything. We're only beginning year 3 of marriage, so, congrats on 14!Renhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05669423301238718571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-73019878872129529412012-01-25T13:37:40.934-05:002012-01-25T13:37:40.934-05:00fun! Thanks Amber...I love these things :)fun! Thanks Amber...I love these things :)Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-23078559967856491702012-01-25T11:13:47.367-05:002012-01-25T11:13:47.367-05:00minor freak outs are normal, no doubt. we have al...minor freak outs are normal, no doubt. we have all been there, pilot or not, i am sure.Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-10384944493869205032012-01-25T06:25:19.498-05:002012-01-25T06:25:19.498-05:00I completely agree with your post Joanna! I had o...I completely agree with your post Joanna! I had one minor freak out the first year we were dating but quickly realized being distrustful would only hurt our relationship, and that trust was a two way street. We've been fine ever since!Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12064316561225211468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-23944323234156911812012-01-24T20:02:48.564-05:002012-01-24T20:02:48.564-05:00Thanks Amber. 14years is just nuts to think about!...Thanks Amber. 14years is just nuts to think about!Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-82050566959228566662012-01-24T15:54:57.550-05:002012-01-24T15:54:57.550-05:00Of all the things for us to worry about, this is t...Of all the things for us to worry about, this is the last thing on the list for us as well! Ditto to what RunBlonie says as well. :) And congrats on 14 years together!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08778678789173107387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-4447142966164625862012-01-24T15:18:22.470-05:002012-01-24T15:18:22.470-05:00A confident woman is a very good thing! :)A confident woman is a very good thing! :)Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8024452810108480973.post-21439719430964554182012-01-24T15:02:06.712-05:002012-01-24T15:02:06.712-05:00Geez, you've had a bad run with the illnesses ...Geez, you've had a bad run with the illnesses lately. Hope you reamin bug free for a long time now!<br /><br />Yep,you did a good job summarizing the "rule rules policy".... <br /><br />It's all about being confident with your self worth.<br /><br />I'm lucky to have my pilot, but he's equally as lucky to have me. I'll never find anyone that's as good as him, and he'll never find a mate better than me (how's that for confidence? lol). Neither one of us is a pushover, or would ever tolerate screwing around. I don't worry about it.Nullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13104978798049257495noreply@blogger.com